Wouldn’t it be nice if men said what they meant, so you knew where you stood? Yeah, that would be amazing!
But instead, men (and women, let’s be fair) tend to send a lot of mixed messages. Take for example, Ellen, who was telling me about her truly baffling on-again, off-again flirtation with a guy.
The scenario would go like this: 1) They’d spend some time together at a club they’re both part of, 2) He’d ask to hangout sometime, 3) She’s say “Yes, that sounds great,” And 4) He’s never follow up.
What gives? Is he scared of her? Does he not really like her at all?
No. He’s just unclear about what he wants. It’s true, you answered him relatively clearly with a “Yes, sounds great.” BUT I believe you’re attracting men who are unclear about what they want because you’re unclear about what you want.
But don’t worry–you didn’t do anything wrong. If you don’t know down to every little cell in your body, what you want in a relationship, how you want to feel, how you want to relate, and how you want to live your life with your partner, you’re normal. That takes some work. But it’s well worth it!
Because when you figure it out, that person will magically appear clearly and confidently. No mixed messages!
Leave a comment below–Have you ever received mixed messages from a guy? I can’t wait to hear!
Till I see you soon, take good care of your sweet heart.