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Do You Have the Power?

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Here’s a riddle: What do Finance, Yoga, and Dating have in common? Well, let’s consider who’s got the most POWER.

1) On the Trading Floor, who’s got it? The junior associate swinging the baseball bat and talking loudly to his friends in the next cubicle? OR the woman in the corner office, who doesn’t have to raise her voice. Just hearing her Manolo’s clank down the hall is enough to make everyone sit up straiter in their chair.

2) In the Yoga Studio, who’s got it? The dude who’s breathing heavily and loudly, who jumps and lands on his mat with a thump and a grunt? OR the lithe dancer who seemingly moves in slow motion so that every jump lands without a single sound?

3) In the Bar, who’s got it? The woman who enters the room with a splash, says hello to everyone and immediately kisses the bartender on each cheek? OR is it the woman who steps into the bar, pauses silently to survey the scene allowing each and every man and woman to see her, and fills the room with her presence without saying a thing?

OK–did you figure out? What do Finance, Yoga, and Dating have in common?

Answer: The person with the most quiet confidence has the power!

OK, so how do you get that confidence? Well, it’s a practice like anything else. But keep in mind, you don’t have to do a whole song and dance to convince people that you’re powerful. Just believe it. And everyone around you will too.

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What do you think? Is quiet confidence the key to power? What about your life? Tell is in the comments section below: Do YOU have the power? I can’t wait to hear your answers!



I’m Shocked! What you *Really* Want From a Man!

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I’m shocked! I thought I really knew what a savvy, successful, and stunning woman like you wants from a man. 

But BOY, was I wrong! After interviewing dozens of women about their dating and love lives (for an exciting new project that I’ll share more about soon) I realize I was wrong, wrong, wrong!

I thought your top priority was security, chivalry, and of course LOVE. Now don’t get me wrong, you do want these things. But they’re not at the tippity-top of the list. Can you guess what is?

Someone who just gets it about…work! That’s right! You want to be understood, seen, and truly supported emotionally and spiritually in the work that you do. You don’t want your man to be your boss, or even in the same industry, necessarily. But you do want him to get it. You want him to get how driven you are. You want him to get it that for you it’s not just work, it’s your passion, and an expression of your best self!

Does this sound like you? Do you want a man who just gets it about work? Let’s get this conversation going, I have a feeling it’s gonna be a juicy one! Leave a comment–What do you really want from a man? I can’t wait to hear from you!

Till I see you soon, take good care of your sweet heart.